About this episode
Mary J. Blige joins Fat Joe and Jadakiss for their FIRST show on Netflix! The Queen of R&B tells Joe and Jada about her "Mary J. Blige: My Life, My Story" residency in Las Vegas, why she isn't sorry about being happy, the funny way she wound up on "Can't Knock The Hustle" on Jay-Z's debut album 'Reasonable Doubt,' the reason she considers Jadakiss, Styles P, and Fabolous to be her family, and the story behind making "Family Affair" with Dr. Dre. Joe and Jada is now STREAMING ON NETFLIX ! 7:00 - The "My Life, My Story" residency 18:00 - Do the women at Mary's shows "hate men"? 34:00 - Mary's biggest hip hop influences 48:00 - How Mary wound up on 'Reasonable Doubt' 53:00 - Story behind "Family Affair" with Dr. Dre 58:00 - Mary considers Jada & Fabolous family 1:01:30 - The movie Fat Joe & Mary did together [Timestamps may vary due to advertisements.] All lines provided by Hard Rock Bet See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Episode summary
We kick it off loud with a live crowd, birthday love in the room, and an intro fit for a legend—Mary J. Blige is in the building.
We celebrate you heavy, crack jokes, sing you up, and remind everybody this show is massive—no frontin’.
This residency is where I’m supposed to be; touring is beautiful but nonstop, and Vegas lets me stay put, lock in, and give a focused show.
We talking real stay-in-a-mansion energy, the city buzzing, and folks everywhere reacting like it’s headline news.
I cut my first tape at the mall singing Anita Baker, Jeff Redd passed it to Andre Harrell, he pulled up, I sang the whole Rapture album, and that set everything off.
You Remind Me jumped from the Strictly Business soundtrack; Red Alert spun it, DJs ran with it, and Puff knew exactly how to frame me when nobody else did.
I’ve seen your early footage flipping stages, and I joke the ladies at your shows want to fry us men—then you always set me straight.
It’s not hate—it’s hurt; my music has always been where I was, from pain to healing, and I can’t stay miserable just to please people.
Heartbreak hits everybody, and I’ve talked brothers off the ledge; that’s why your songs carry men too.
Facts—men sing I’m Going Down at the top of their lungs; it gets them through long nights and hard work the same way.
My Life, My Life Story in Vegas brings actors into the narrative, pulls from real interviews, and digs into B-sides I’ve barely performed.
That’s exactly what the fans asked me for—those deep cuts live.
We had a joint with a crazy sample that leaked during mixing, and two weeks later the sample was gone—lesson learned, I keep my moves quiet now.
Protect your blessings; we even kept our Netflix play under wraps so nobody could move on it—no one feeds us, so we lock it down.
Dame linked me to Jay; I walked into the studio, got a brown paper bag, laid the part with Irv there, and kept it pushing—street energy turned into history.
Family Affair happened because Dom Poo pushed me to try something new; Dre demanded a bridge, I wrote it, and when a country station bus driver told me it was his song, I knew it was huge.
You and Fab and Kiss got real chemistry.
I go where I’m celebrated—Fab and Kiss always show up, no begging, just love and work.
Your style stays on ten, and that closet has to be outrageous.
It’s wild, and half of it’s missing from moves and giveaways—I wish I still had some of those pieces.
Yonkers block parties, skate rinks, and the DJs schooled us on deep records you didn’t hear on radio; that foundation shaped my ear.
You keep your relationship private and look unbothered—protect that peace.
My family and friends know what’s up; the world doesn’t need every detail, and I like it that way.
First time we met was Prison Song—you were ready to ride for me on set, and I carried that whole movie like a true first-timer.
Uptown days were a moment—Father MC, Heavy D, Jodeci, the whole wave—and you launched right out of that.
Run your play: My Life, My Life Story in Vegas—get your tickets early, don’t call in favors, and make some noise for MJB.
I love y’all—see you in Vegas, and thank you for riding with me from the pain to the joy.